**IMPORTANT*:
★ 1: I OFFER ALTERNATIVE/DOMINATION/BDSM SERVICES ONLY
★ 2: I DO NOT REMOVE ANY OF MY CLOTHES
★ 3: I DO NOT ALLOW YOU TO TOUCH ME INTIMATELY
★ 4: I DO NOT OFFER CLASSIC 'PERSONAL SERVICES'
I'm a 'pure' dominatrix - I do not moonlight as an escort under a different name, and I never offer 'traditional' services!
About Me...
HELLO SUBS, SLAVES & NAUGHTY BOYS!!!
If you're looking for yet another 'goth-with-a-whip', I'm afraid you're in the wrong place; I'm not fond of the modern, over-used, generic, stereotype dominatrix templates, or the stifling rules and rhetoric of the 'scene-style-pro-domme'. My (very) early years were excited by the stories of Cynthia Payne, Christine Keeler, Mandy Rice-Davies, Miss Whiplash, men in brown trench-coats, and cards in newsagents windows advertising 'French Polishing'... even though I couldn't quite grasp what it was all about! I still hold dear those memories of something that seemed so much more genuine and naughtier than todays commercially-driven, brand-based 'scene'. I keep it 'old-skool', thrive on artistic freedom, and prefer to 'freestyle', rather than being cajoled into joining 'The Club' and abiding by it's unwritten rules. I'm not a 'lifestyle-domme'/pantomime character, just a REAL, ORDINARY WOMAN, with a private lust for dominating, humiliating, manipulating, and playing with the desires of submissive men (whether they are naturally submissive, or have to be trained that way!), and I love my secret, double-life! I am the complete opposite of a 'lifestyle-domme'; I am the ordinary, innocent local lady, pleasant neighbour nextdoor... who you'd NEVER HAVE THOUGHT was getting up to that!!! I choose to enjoy time ONLY with men/ladies/couples whose desires are fully compatible with my own, and I can be a bit picky over my visitors... however, with those who show me a little respect, I am approachable, understanding, adaptable, friendly, warm, non-judgemental, and I have a calm and mature outlook. I love to listen, talk over, evolve and extend your fantasy games, whether they be 'nice' or 'nasty', psychological, scripted role-plays, purely physical sensation, or just handing yourself over to me to experiment with. I have no interest in dishing out the predictable 'scenario A, B or C', and I make no assumptions as to what your fantasy may involve. With sensitivity, discretion, and patience, I ALWAYS treat my visitors as individuals, and do my very best to create unique experiences for each session.
Although I'm at the more extreme/weird/freaky end of BDSM specialists (in terms of equipment, experience, and eagerness), I still embrace the sensual side... I love feeling feminine, delicate, sexy and lusted over... knowing that you can't have what you really want... me! I love to tease, tie you up in low-lighting, climb all over you (me kinkily clothed, of course!), blindfold you and move around you in silence... with a brush of warm latex here... a whisper of breath there... I like to go with 'less-is-more', and I love to drive submissive, passive men crazy with anticipation, sensory deprivation .
On the other hand, if you're a glutton for punishment, rampant use of my strap-ons, canings, electrics cranked up... savagery is good fun too! - Get ready to take it like a bitch!
Oh, and I also like seeing reluctant, closet-homos suck cock...
LADY F. - YOUR VERY OWN TRAINED ACTRESS!
Back in the day, I trained at a top London drama school for three years (not at one of these modern, trashy, bratty, 'performing arts'/stage schools... but, like, a right posh one, doin' Stanislavsky, 'n Brecht, 'n Shakespeare, 'n that!!!), gained full Equity membership, and spent a number of happy years working in the theatre. Although my classic monologues are somewhat rusty, I love to take on your pervy role-plays! This is where I can act the classic bitch-boss, cane-wielding headmistress, annoyed neighbour, Hamlet, or East-End pub landlady ("GEERRRRAAAT MA PUB!" - Seriously, I'm just SO good!!!). Scripted or improvised, I don't mind... but DON'T just ask me to 'get angry' with you - that just doesn't work for me (I'm a method-actor, dahhhling, I need motivation...!!!).
MY RULES ARE...
1:I'm in charge, you're passive.
2:You will not touch me unless invited to do so. I like to tease with my body, and the more respectful you are of this rule, the happier I feel to 'accidently' brush my boobs against you, grab your wrists and push your hands onto my buttocks, sit on your face because my feet hurt, lay on top of you because I'm tired, pin your arms to your sides using my thighs, push your legs open with the same... etc. If your hands reach out to grab, squeeze, rub, pinch, stroke, caress... or your mouth reaches out to kiss, lick, nibble... then contact with my body will end there and I will only touch you with my hands or equipment (and if you persist in trying to touch me, you'll be asked to leave). Foot fetishists will be given permission to rub, stroke, kiss, caress, and massage my feet.
3:I do not remove my clothes. All my sessions are CF/NM. I have a large amount of fetish and role-play outfits, including: latex, PVC, uniforms, satin, etc, but also: 'frumpy-wear', 'bitch-boss-wear', casual-wear, the simple dresses and small-heels I wear to the supermarket, a plastic bin-liner, etc... I'm open to the fact that fetishes sometimes involve non-sexy, drab, and unexpected outfits, and I do my best to cover all bases! Please make clothing requests before your session, and please do not ask that I wear 'something revealing', or 'as little as possible' - These requests suggest to me that you don't 'get it', and I am therefore not the woman for you.
4:Along with the giving of strap-on/dildo, other insertions, & CBT, the ONLY intimate service I provide is hand-relief (in the guise of 'edging', 'orgasm denial', 'ruined orgasm', etc).
✔️✔️✔️Activities I'm happy to indulge in...✔️✔️✔️
The realms of fetish are limitless, and I am very open to the weird, unusual, odd or silly! I am also happy to indulge in many 'RACK' (Risk-Aware-Consensual-Kink), extreme-end, BDSM activities. Please scroll further down for my list of activities I don't offer - If you're looking for something that's not included in it, then I'm probably up for it!
I'm careful to respect and abide by AWs listing policies, and the following list is by no means exhaustive, but rather a few random, soft suggestions to whet your appetite (it also crosses over with my equipment list, which can be found under my 'Chambers & Equipment' tab):
*Photos and videos of activities and equipment in use will gradually be added to my gallery, private gallery, and movies tab, so please check back regularly*
✔️ Role-play
✔️ Tie & tease
✔️ Spanking
✔️ Whipping
✔️ Basic bondage
✔️ Japanese Rope Bondage (Shibari/Kinbaku)
✔️ Prolonged and awkward restraint
✔️ Kicking, Slapping & Punching (including face)
✔️ Ball-busting
✔️ Vac-bed/vac-rack (2 metres x 2.5 metres, neck + cock-hole, sucked using a Miele 'Silence')
✔️ Porn (mainly homo) for watching on a number of different TV-screens
✔️ Humiliation
✔️ Canadian 'LockerRoom' *leather-cleaners* (I only use the VERY best, and I always have lots!)
✔️ I love whipped cream, and have the *means to whip* TONS of it (...and similar fun!)!
✔️ Suspension (frame with electric hoists)
✔️ Cuckold role-plays (no 3rd party sex-displays)
✔️ Cross-dressing (limited - panties, stockings, etc, but not FULL transformations)
✔️ Strap-ons/butt-plugs/dildos
✔️ Fire-play (on a small-scale!)
✔️ F-Machine Pro 2 (fucking machine with interchangeable dildo attachments)
✔️ Prostate stimulation
✔️ Foot fetish
✔️ Trampling
✔️ Caging
✔️ Scratching
✔️ Edging/orgasm Denial
✔️ Verbal abuse (including taboo name-calling)
✔️ Small cock humiliation
✔️ Cock & ball torture
✔️ Spitting
✔️ Group/shared sessions
✔️ Sensory deprivation
✔️ Wax play
✔️ Tickle torture
✔️ Instructed masturbation
✔️ Worn-panty sniffing
✔️ Deep-Heat, surgical spirit, nettles, etc
✔️ Venus2000/VenusForMen (wanking/milking machine)
✔️ Feminization (limited - panties, stockings, etc, but not FULL transformations)
✔️ Closet homosexuality
✔️ Bottom-worship (clothed in latex/PVC/nylon... eg; substantial pants and tights! - kissing ok, licking not)
✔️ Face-sitting (clothed in latex/PVC/nylon... eg; substantial pants and tights! - no licking or kissing allowed)
✔️ Electrics (Erostek 312B, E-Stim 2b, plus numerous smaller units and attachments)
✔️ Violet Wand (modern/solid state 'neon wand' + 1930s antique/mechanical state)
✔️ Watersports
✖️✖️✖️Activities I DO NOT indulge in...✖️✖️✖️
✖️ Standard 'personal services' (except HR, in the guise of edging, CBT, etc)
✖️ Hardsports
✖️ Naked/Uncovered face-sitting
✖️ Smoking
✖️ Enemas/Douching (please do not use my bathroom for these purposes)
✖️ Wearing/Use of fur (I object to it morally; Cruelty to men: GOOD! - Cruelty to animals: BAD!)
✖️ Insect/animal cruelty
✖️ 3rd party cuckold sex displays
✖️ Significant scratching ('teasing' scratching is fine, as well as scratching via an implement... but I don't wish to gather your skin-cells, dried sweat, or whetever else under my nails - bleugh!!!).
✖️ Sploshing (yuch! I was brought up with impeccable table manners - I can't stand eating food with my bare fingers, let alone smearing it on someone!)
✖️ Make-up for trannies (I dislike the mess of foundation/face powder/fake-tan/lipstick/etc - I don't provide it, and ask that you don't bring it or arrive wearing it)
✖️ Wrestling (hey, I'm a feminine, delicate lady, ok!?! Many years ago, I found myself in a similar situation to the famous scene in 'Borat' - I vowed then that I would never attempt wrestling again!!!)
✖️ Anything specifically A/B/C classed (I don't have any, don't want any, and ask you don't bring any - I enjoy *fetish stuff* only).
✖️ Alcohol-consumption (I don't drink, and I don't like being around drunk people)
✖️ Noisy visitors (I have neighbours, I don't have sound-proofing, and I don't want it - I like BDSM fun to be more meditational , rather than silly, noisy, shouting and screaming. If you like to make lots of noise, or are unable to control yourself, I'm not the lady for you.)
✖️ I NEVER switch, play submissive, or allow clients to 'do stuff' to me
✖️ Dinner dates, 'arrangements', shopping trips, days out, travel, holidays, socializing with clients (I like to keep my social life private and seperate from my clients... and I respect the wishes of the large majority of you who like to do the same!)
✖️ Domestic servitude (I find this incredibly dull, and I don't need my floors mopped/vacuumed ten times a day)
✖️ Findom (apart from real-time roleplays with visiting clients, I am not one of the throngs of women who will unashamedly beg... oops, sorry, 'DEMAND'... that you send them money/vouchers/credits {"loser", "pay-piggy", "fund my lifestyle", blah, blah, yawn...}. I find it very undignified and tacky. Please go to someone else for this crap. If you want to send me money for no good reason, go ahead... but don't expect me to ask for or acknowledge it, and I certainly can't be bothered to accompany you to an ATM - you're on your own there.)
Contact me...
PHONE CALLS ONLY, PLEASE!!!
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I DO NOT READ OR REPLY TO TEXTS.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I DO NOT READ OR REPLY TO EMAILS.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I HANG-UP ON ANYONE WHO CALLS ME WHILST DRIVING AND/OR USING HANDS-FREE/LOUDSPEAKER.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ DO NOT SUBMIT AN ONLINE BOOKING WITHOUT SPEAKING TO ME FIRST.
IF YOU IGNORE THE ABOVE REQUESTS, I WILL ASSUME YOU HAVE NOT BOTHERED TO READ ANY OF MY PROFILE, AND I WILL BLOCK YOU WITHOUT ANY FURTHER COMMUNICATION.
My Chambers and Equipment
***A picture speaks a thousand words... but I'm camera-shy, lol! I recently removed all my old, well-outdated photos of me at my old premises, and will, in time get lots of new pics of myself and my present chambers and equipment uploaded***
Creativity is a never-ending curse! I've poured my heart, soul, imagination, passion and eons of time and effort into creating my own fantasy spaces... and they will NEVER be finished, but will constantly be evolving, improving and changing as I chase impossible perfection! I'm not a fan of 'generic' dungeons; I find the style used in typical dungeons (particularly those that can be hired for use) bleak, unimaginative, lacking personality, atmosphere, creativity, passion, or any feeling that this is a particular lady's personal dream space. Maybe this distopian feel appeals to some, but I just find it lazy and depressing. I dislike supposedly 'high-end', high-priced dungeon furniture; ugly, basic, unadaptable, often impractical for different shapes and sizes of subs, and just too 'prescribed'. I like my chambers to be the stuff of my personal fantasies, not a replica of a bondage-furniture showroom, and I want my visitors to be surrounded and engulfed by the surreal world of Lady F. as soon as they step through my door (having first removed their shoes, lol!).
I have three playrooms, however, one (the medical room) is a work in progress and won't be available for a few months yet. So! - My current two playrooms available are...
1 (of 3): MY CONSULATION ROOM
Scenery:
Inescapably purple and gold, from the ultra-deep purple carpet, up to the gold ceiling, this room oozes indulgence! With a vague theme of eerie-Victoriana, I like to think my visitors will never feel totally at ease in this room. Designed to be a domestic room for those who have fantasies set more in an everyday world, the decor also creates a perfect setting to worship at the heavenly feet of your Lady. A huge, 7ft x 5ft wall-mounted mirror, allows me to inspect your servitude from all angles, and a wall-mounted 40-inch TV used with a video camera will show you close-ups of your grovelling, the uploadable movie I'm making of you, or, alternatively, display porn. Tassels, beads, fringes, lace, velvet, satin, Tiffany-lamps, creepy knick-knacks... all the things I like!
Furniture:
As this room is intended to retain it's domestic feel, no specific bondage furniture lies within, however, satin ties are abundant, with a self-made restraint-system fixed to my chaise longue to ensure there's no escape, luxury or not! I specifically hunted down a backless chaise longue and matching chair for a variety of restrained positioning - This can only really be demonstrated via photos.
Props:
As above, to retain the domestic feel of this room, few BDSM toys are kept within it, however, all toys from the dungeon can be collected and used (scroll further down for toy-list).
2 (of 3): MY 'DEEP-THERAPY' ROOM
Scenery:
Red walls and ceiling, dotted by hundreds of tiny red lights, then swathed in red voile (for those who don't know, this is semi-transparent fabric!), this room glows deliciously red. I love being swallowed up soley by the red shadows, but various other lights can brighten, spotlight, soften, and focus - and if needed, standard overhead lighting can be flicked on... as well as all lighting being switched off... to plunge you into TOTAL darkness. Black vinyl flooring ensures all mess can be thoroughly cleaned (or licked up). A huge mirror, 7ft x 5ft is wall mounted in front of the suspension frame/cage, St Andrew's Cross, and vaulting horse, allowing you to see yourself dangled, fucked, trampled, etc, and a wall-mounted 40-inch TV used with a video camera will show you close-ups of your predicament, the uploadable movie I'm making of you, or, alternatively, display porn. A 3ft LED writing board allows me to write abusive stuff about you in flashing neon, black chains on the walls hold various hanging implements, and black wire shelves hold all the other nasty little toys I need to entertain myself! More beads, tassels, objet d'art... more of the stuff I like!
Furniture:
Roomy cage with bondage table and overhead frame;
LOWER-HALF/CAGE: 6ft(L) x 3ft(W) x 2.5ft(H), base lightly padded and wipe-clean. Inside the cage are more little red lights and swathed-voile, and around the cage, I've fitted red, voile curtains which can be opened or closed; when closed, you are swallowed up in red intensity - the voile is transparent enough for you to still see me walking around the room, but thick enough for me to forget about your existence. I've fitted a small TV screen to the inside top of the cage so that you can lay, restrained, and have no choice but to stare up at the screen showing porn, me giving you my instructions or mind-conditioning, etc. With a video-camera also fitted inside the cage, I can keep an eye on what you're up to (it's 1984... did you not know Big Brother is actually a woman?!?). There is also a mirror running the length of the cage (a couple of feet outside/away from it), so no excuse not to look your best. My cage-creation is intended to be all-consuming and surreal, but also meditational... akin to being back inside the womb! If you wish (or if I forget you completely), all lights can be switched off to plunge you into total blackout. Sometimes I like to get inside with you, climbing over you, crushing you, intensifying your claustrophobia, or maybe I'll taunt you with implements inserted through the bars.
UPPER-HALF/BONDAGE TABLE AND FRAME: 6ft(L) x 3ft(W), lightly padded, wipe-clean table with raised head-end. I've covered the table in straps of seat-belt webbing with clips that tighten fully and snuggly around any sizes of body parts (I get so frustrated with the lack of flexibility of buckled cuffs... one hole is always slightly too loose... but the next one up is slightly too tight to reach... argh!). If you wish, leather, buckled cuffs can be clipped to the four corners (but be warned, I'll get grumpy as they don't hold you as firmly in place as my custom straps!). Another small TV screen is fixed at the foot-end of the frame, as well as another video-camera fixed in position so that you can watch yourself strapped and suffering, as well as zoomed in action on the interesting bits. The overhead frame is not strong enough to take your full weight, but is designed to hoist the smaller parts of you, as well as being handy for hanging bags and dispensers, etc (just behind the head-end, I have a little fixed 'preparation area' with goodies I may wish to dish out!).
✖️✖️✖️FROM THIS POINT, THIS TAB IS CURRENTLY AN INCOMPLETE MESS IN PROGRESS!!! - Please 'bare' with me!✖️✖️✖️
Suspension frame
With two electric hoists (unavailable for a few weeks as it's being converted into a suspension cage!)
St Andrew's Cross
(unavailable for a few weeks as it fixes to my suspension frame/cage, as above)
6ft, low-level, leather vaulting horse
(from a closed school-gym in Chekoslovakia!!!)
Bondage chair
(currently turning it into a 'pillory-chair'!)
Toilet chair
Props:
It's really difficult to list all my furniture, equipment, clothing, and 'stuff', as I not only have loads, but I've altered and adapted loads of stuff to have my own, desired features. I'll attempt a list here, but it'll never be complete! -
F-Machine Pro 2 (fucking machine with interchangeable dildo attachments)
Venus 2000/VenusForMen (wanking/milking machine)
Electrics (Erostek 312B, Estim 2B, plus a few smaller units and numerous attachments)
Violet Wand (modern/solid state 'neon wand' + 1930s antique/mechanical state)
Vac-bed/vac-rack (2 metres x 2.5 metres, neck + cock-hole, sucked using a Miele 'Silence')
[b]Stockade with anal attachment
Anal impaler
Hot wax (from candles, right up to jug-fulls, dripped, poured or brushed on)
Restraints, cuffs, ties, rope, etc
Leather straight-jacket
Leather body-bag
Clips, clamps, pegs, etc
Vibrators, wands, etc
Whips, paddles, floggers, canes, crops, etc
Dildos, butt plugs, strap-ons, prostate massagers, etc
Pumps
Various flash-papers
Cock-rings, boot-laces, etc
Sharps
Other insertables (including electric)
Gags
Rubber/latex
Gloss pvc
3 (of 3): THE MEDICAL ROOM... will hopefully be completed soon!
!!! IMPORTANT !!! - I only accept visitors who come by private car and park in my private courtyard spaces. I do not accept visitors who come by taxi or on foot/public transport, or those who have parked nearby/elsewhere. If this is a problem, please call to discuss it with me.
LOCATION:
CAMBERLEY, SURREY - GU15 3PE - This is NOT my actual postcode, but close. Camberley is on the Surrey border with Berkshire and Hampshire, 5 minutes from the M3 (J3 or J4), half-hour from the M25 (J12).
PARKING:
I have PRIVATE, OFF-ROAD/COURTYARD PARKING right outside my door (free, of course), discretely tucked away from the public's prying eyes.
THE AREA IS A VERY SAFE, UPMARKET, QUIET AND DISCRETE RESIDENTIAL AREA
...as well as my property entrance and parking being covered by my own, private, remote-recording CCTV.
Fees
30 minutes - £100
1 hour - £180
Further hours are fixed at £100 each (i.e. 2 hours = £280, 3 hours = £380, and so on).
Bookings
I handle bookings in two different ways:
1: Short-Notice - Give me a call with no less than 30 minutes notice, and if I'm free, I'll be happy for you to come straight over. Obviously, this can be hit-and-miss, and it's fairly likely I won't be available, however, it does give you flexibility of working around last-minute work or family commitments. I try to allow time every day for these types of bookings, and changes/cancellations of advance bookings are an unfortunate reality, so it's worth giving me a call if you find yourself suddenly in the mood! In addition, if you are happy to 'share' your session, and at that time I have a visitor who feels the same, again, you'd be welcome to head straight over (please see my seperate tab for more details of my Group/Shared Sessions).
2: Advance - I'm happy to take advance bookings, however, please take these appointments seriously. I ask 24 hours notice for adjustments or cancellations - If you fail to do this, I will not take another booking with you until a £50 cancellation fee is paid through AW. If you repeatedly cancel and rebook (even with 24 hours notice), I will block you completely. Adjustments are not always possible; although I allow a little space between visitors, it may be that I have someone else booked immediately after you - therefore, if you are more than 15 minutes late, I consider the session cancelled, even if you call me to say you're running late. If I'm able to fit you in, despite your lateness, I will... but please remember my day does not revolve around you, and I am committed to sticking to schedule for the bookings of others!
Contact me...
PHONE CALLS ONLY, PLEASE!!!
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I DO NOT READ OR REPLY TO TEXTS.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I DO NOT READ OR REPLY TO EMAILS.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ I HANG-UP ON ANYONE WHO CALLS ME WHILST DRIVING AND/OR USING HANDS-FREE/LOUDSPEAKER.
✖️✖️✖️✖️✖️ DO NOT SUBMIT AN ONLINE BOOKING WITHOUT SPEAKING TO ME FIRST.
IF YOU IGNORE THE ABOVE REQUESTS, I WILL ASSUME YOU HAVE NOT BOTHERED TO READ ANY OF MY PROFILE, AND I WILL BLOCK YOU WITHOUT ANY FURTHER COMMUNICATION.
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There is only one way to book me... CALL ME!!!
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Group/Shared Sessions
If you request for your session to be private, your privacy will be respected and guaranteed, however, I try to make my chambers as relaxed and 'open-door' as possible; somewhere you can drop in when you feel in the mood. To do this, I am happy for your session to cross with others. It may be that you are interested in homo-play with other men (this could be full-on gay fucking, or a gradual 'toe-dip' approach for newbies/the unsure), or you are simply happy to be seen to while another guy is chained in the cage below you. I always make sure all parties are aware and consenting to shared sessions when booking. Where bookings permit, I'm also happy for your session to extend longer than your fee has covered (for example, if you've paid for an hour, but you are happy to remain caged for an extra hour while I see to someone else, you'll be staying 2 hours for the fee of 1).
Being the unreliable, fickle, annoyances that you all are(!), I can never guarantee a shared session in advance (one of you buggers will always pussy-out and cancel at the last minute!), however, I do try to arrange them as much as possible as they are great fun, and the more, the merrier!
I only offer shared sessions to those I have sessioned with at least once before. This is because I like to get to know and understand the needs, desires, boundaries and character of each visitor before I risk putting them together; that way, you can be sure you won't be faced with someone who actually has very different ideas to your own!
Webcam
I know, of course, most of the camming ladies on AW are 'performing' for their viewers, but, of course, that won't be the case with me; Although you'll see me (always fully clothed) on my Logitech Brio, I expect YOU to perform FOR ME! - I want to giggle at your tiny willy, watch you wank under my instructions, , watch you slip those pretty panties on, watch you slide that nice big butt-plug up your hole, watch you lick up your cum... and lots of other good stuff!
Please note, I'm not a fast typist, so audio is best for me!
Regarding real-time visits...
I've always been rather picky and anxious over prospective new visiting clients, and I have turned down many of you (and been quite brutal with some of you... in many cases, perhaps more so than you deserve!). If you are thinking of visiting (and particularly if I've turned you down before), I would really appreciate you connecting to webcam with me so that we can get to know and understand each other. It can be very difficult to make a judgement on someone from a brief phone-call, and I have always very much erred on the side of caution, however, a webcam session would help me feel much more comfortable in inviting you to my chambers, and, I hope, would also help you make sure I'm the right lady for you.
Please note; This does not mean you staying hidden and only typing. Although I'm happy to chat with those who only want to type/stay hidden on webcam, this defeats the object of making me feel more comfortable with you for a visit, and I won't make a visit booking with someone I have not at least spoken with on the phone. If you are webcamming with me in order to arrange a visit, please show your face (or at least some part of your body!) and let's have a 'proper' natter!
