Female Escorts / Essex /Steffi O

Steffi O

About Me



Hello there! I'm Steffi, a friendly and easygoing gal with a mind that is pure filth. With my long legs and natural F-cup breasts I have been told I have the body of a porn star, with a charming personality to match!

I'm very upfront and like to get straight down to business, so without further ado, here are the dirty details you're looking for...

For escort meetups I can offer the following:

- oral
- hand relief
- titfucking
- dirty talk (practically my 2nd language)
- receiving oral (with a dental dam)
- JOI
- CIM (at discretion), or "C" anywhere else on my body if you like
- more..?!?!

Please note I do not typically allow full penetration of myself from first-time clients.

I am also a pro-domme, and kink/fetish specialist. See the BDSM, kink & fetish tab for more details.

I have some vinyl, faux leather outfits, some of which appear in my gallery. I also have several satin garments if that's your thing. Or I can just wear my everyday clothes, or be completely naked the entire time - it's up to you!

Disabled or neurodivergent clients welcome. My flat has step-free access.

You can't see it in my photos but I wear glasses. A lot of people like the sexy teacher vibe, but if you prefer I can take them off (just don't make me read any small print).

If you want to chat at the start of our session to break the ice, or as a wind-down after, you'll find I'm a good listener, and very knowledgeable. I'm also a huge nerd so, hey, if you just want to talk about Star Trek I'm down!

My usual availability is as follows:

Monday: 10:00-21:00
Tuesday: 16:30-21:00
Wednesday: 16:30-21:00
Thursday: 16:30-21:00
Friday: 16:30-21:00
Saturday: 10:00-21:00
Sunday: 10:00-21:00

If you wish to see me earlier on the day Tue-Fri, I will usually be able to swap my schedule around, but I would need to know the week beforehand. I will also request a deposit for any booking that requires me to change my schedule (see the booking info tab for more on deposits.

In-calls:

I have a lovely flat near the centre of Colchester, with ample on-site parking. If you're coming by public transport, I'm less than ten minutes walk from the bus station and Colchester Town Station.

I usually see clients in my living room, which has a comfy sofa and is always kept clean and tidy. There are yoga mats if anyone is getting down on their knees. If you would prefer the bedroom, that's fine, but please give me advance notice so I can make sure it's ready.


Out-calls:

I can do outcalls within the Colchester area and will consider calls to surrounding towns (e.g. Chelmsford, Ipswich). My rate will be my usual plus a reasonable extra for travel time and costs, so will vary depending on how far I have to go. Message me and we'll work something out!



Here is non-exhaustive list of BDSM, kink and fetish activities I am willing to take part in:

- Anal play
- (Light) Bondage
- CEI
- Cuckolding (with couples)
- Domestic servitude
- Financial Domination
- Foot worship (including boot worship)
- Feminisation / sissy training
- Golden showers (giving) +£20 extra fee
- Human furniture
- Humiliation
- Ignore sessions
- Impact play & spanking
- Orgasm control/denial
- Pet play
- Strap-on play/worship

Please note that where relevant I would be in the Top/Dominant role, and you would be the submissive/bottom. I don't switch for clients.

As a Domme I am strict but have a playful side. I expect obedience and politeness from subs at all times.

My limits

I will not do any play involving the following:

- blood
- ballbusting
- anything with a risk of serious injury
- foodplay
- ageplay

I also do not tolerate any topping-from-the-bottom nonsense. By all means tell me your likes and limits prior to the booking, and do use safewords when you need to, but I ask that you respect me as a professional and do not attempt to take control during the session.

Safe and ethical BDSM

Please let me know of any limits you have, and I shall respect them.

I always require that we establish safewords before any sort of BDSM or kink play. My usual is the traffic light system ("amber" means ease off, and "red" means stop altogether), but let me know if you have a preference of your own.



Three steps for booking time with me:

1. Make sure you've read the "about me" section! Don't approach me asking for services that I don't offer. You'll only be disappointed.

2. Send me an email or SMS telling me a little about what you'd like to experience. I appreciate directness. If you prefer me to take charge and decide what we do, that's also fine, just let me know in advance if you have any limits or preferences. Also please let me know what time/day you were hoping to see me.

3. I'll respond as soon as possible (usually within a few hours, unless it's the middle of the night). If I'm happy to book you, and once we've worked out a time, I'll ask you to place your slot using the booking form. And then we're all set for fun times :)


Deposits

I will request a deposit of £20 for certain first-time bookings, at my discretion. This is to deter timewasters. My usual deposit method is via Amazon e-gift card. It will come off your your total payment, so for example if you booked an hour it would only be £120 to pay in person.

The deposit is non-refundable, but if you contact me to cancel or if I have to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances, your deposit can be transferred to a future meeting (must be within 3 months) so you won't have to pay again. If you fail to show up, act inappropriately towards me, or cancel twice in a row, then your deposit will be lost.

A few more important things to be aware of:

- I take my health very seriously (I'm immuno-compromised, so viruses can be life-threatning to me). If you at all suspect you may be coming down with something or have been exposed to something contagious, please kindly message me to cancel our booking, and we will reschedule it for when you are feeling better.
- If you turn up under the influence of alcohol or any other substance which impairs judgement I will turn you away
- If you are clearly under age, I will turn you away (if you look very young, I recommend you bring ID with you. You can cover up your name with your thumb if you like, and just show me the photo and DOB).
- If you are rude, aggressive or cross my boundaries at any point then I will end our session immediately
- And finally it should go without saying but please wash beforehand!

If you can stick to all these things then I will be delighted to spend time with you :)



Unable to meet me? Luckily I offer filthy, flirty phone chats too!

Chats I'll offer include:

- mutual masturbation (e.g. we both masturbate)
- JOI (I tell you to masturbate)
- verbal domination sessions
- roleplays
- anything else our imaginations come up with!

The only sort of chat I won't engage in is anything involving illegal or abusive situations.

If you want to stay silent and just listen to my dirty talk, that's fine! Just let me know in your booking request.

If you see me available for phone chat, then I'll respond to booking requests as soon as possible. If you want to book something a little way in advance you're welcome to message me using AW's emailing system and we'll sort something out.

Enjoys

  • 15 Mins "quickie"
  • Anal Play
  • BDSM
  • BDSM (giving)
  • Bukkake
  • CIM
  • CIM (at discretion)
  • Cross Dressing
  • Disabled Clients
  • Domination
  • Domination (giving)
  • Face Sitting
  • Facials
  • Fetish
  • FFM 3Somes
  • Fingering/Finger Play
  • Foot Worship
  • Hand Relief
  • Humiliation
  • Humiliation (giving)
  • Lapdancing
  • MMF 3Somes
  • Moresomes
  • Naturism/Nudism
  • Oral
  • Oral without (at discretion)
  • Oral without Protection
  • Receiving Oral
  • Rimming
  • Rimming (receiving)
  • Role Play & Fantasy
  • Silent Caller (Phone Chat)
  • Spanking
  • Spanking (giving)
  • Spanking (receiving)
  • Strap On
  • Striptease
  • Sub games
  • Swallow
  • Swallow (at discretion)
  • Tie & Tease
  • Toys
  • Watersports

Enjoys With

  • Male
  • Female
  • Couple MF
  • Couple MM
  • Couple FF

Incall Rates

  • ½ Hour - £60
  • 1 Hour - £120
  • 2 Hours - £240
  • 15 mins - £40
  • 1½ Hours - £180
  • ¾ Hour - £90

FAQs

  • Question: Can I bring you a gift?
    Answer: No thank you, especially not the traditional ones. I think flowers look nicest growing in the ground, and I just so happen to be allergic to chocolate! If you do want to give me a little extra something, you can tip me and I will treat myself. There is no expectation or pressure for you to do so though.

  • Question: Can I have your phone number?
    Answer: If we make a booking, I'll give you my number so that we can communicate about it on the day. Otherwise, no!

  • Question: Can I perform oral on you?
    Answer: Sorry, no. I don't allow clients to lick or touch me down there.

  • Question: Can I really cum anywhere on you?
    Answer: Yes! Well, maybe not in my ear or something weird like that. But anywhere on my skin, yes. Also onto or into my clothes.

  • Question: Can I shower before/after?
    Answer: Of course! But please let me know in advance if you think you might want to, so I can make sure there's enough hot water in the tank.

  • Question: Can we kiss on the lips / with tongue?
    Answer: Nope! I don't want your germs, thanks.

  • Question: Do you do GFE?
    Answer: Maybe..? Let me know what you want in straightforward terms because I've found different people have different understandings of GFE.

  • Question: Will you peg me?
    Answer: I would love to peg you! I have my own dildos but you can also bring your own if you like. I prefer that clients douche beforehand, using their own douche.

Interview

  • Question: What length is your hair?
    Answer: Long

  • Question: How tall are you?
    Answer: 5'6"

  • Question: What is your dress size?
    Answer: 12

  • Question: What is your bra cup-size?
    Answer: F

  • Question: Do you smoke?
    Answer: No

  • Question: Do you have any tattoos or piercings?
    Answer: Tattoos

  • Question: What is your favourite colour?
    Answer: Dark blue

  • Question: Will you do overnight bookings?
    Answer: No

  • Question: List of Towns/Areas you will visit
    Answer: Colchester, maybe others

  • Question: How long are you prepared to travel for?
    Answer: 45 mins

  • Question: Nearest rail station?
    Answer: Colchester Town

  • Question: What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public?
    Answer: You're assuming I would ever feel ashamed?

  • Question: What is your best feature?
    Answer: Boobs

  • Question: What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had?
    Answer: Me and a friend... happened out of the blue. It was her first time with another woman.

  • Question: How much do you weigh?
    Answer: 11st

  • Question: If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they
    Answer: Partially Visible

  • Question: How is your pubic hair fashioned?
    Answer: Shaved Mostly

  • Question: What is your favourite food?
    Answer: Papri chaat

  • Question: What is your favourite drink?
    Answer: Horlicks

  • Question: What is your favourite film?
    Answer: Everything Everywhere All At Once

  • Question: What is your favourite holiday destination?
    Answer: Italy

  • Question: What is your shoe size?
    Answer: 6

  • Question: What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!)
    Answer: At an alternative event, decided to dance topless on a podium. Five minutes later I was having group sex with three people I just met, in front of about 100 people. I'm still close friends with one of them to this day. Also shoutout to the tall guy from Yorkshire who came over to say "crackin' tits luv!"

  • Question: What three words best describe your personality?
    Answer: friendly, nerdy, horny

  • Question: Where would you most like to have sex?
    Answer: Fancy hotel

  • Question: How would you describe the size of your breasts?
    Answer: Large

  • Question: Are your breasts natural or enhanced?
    Answer: Natural

  • Question: What is your Primary Language?
    Answer: English

  • Question: What is your Secondary Language?
    Answer: I speak a little Dutch and Italian

  • Question: What is the colour of your eyes?
    Answer: Blue

  • Question: How would you describe your body type?
    Answer: Average

  • Question: How would you describe your non-binary gender?
    Answer: NA

  • Question: What is the colour of your hair?
    Answer: Brown

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