About Me
Some of my background: over the years, through different personal experiences, workshops and books, I've been developing different routines I'm proud to offer you. I feel both humble and privileged to be a facilitator in people’s personal journey, while connecting with them on an intimate level.
I'm very open minded and non judgemental. It would be an absolute delight to hear and satisfy your fantasies and kinks. Nothing is a taboo to be discussed.
I'm happy to meet for sex, vanilla or not, based on what you're looking for, but also have some suggestions below, of things we can explore together.
Tantric inspired offerings:
The routines I’m offering are going through constant tweaks and revisions, and are co-created between you and me. This means they aren't written on stone, just a few tools and suggestions we can work with. I'm also more than happy to listen to your suggestions and requests. I’d also point out that everything is an invitation, and you will be in control at all times, being able to withdraw consent at any point.
A note of warning: What I'm proposing to offer you isn't a quick release (i.e. a massage with a happy ending). Orgasms can happen (and are more than welcomed), but they aren't the main goal. What I'd like to be for you, is a bridge to new sensations, self discovery and awareness. Hopefully that will include lots of pleasure too, but they also have healing potential; as such, they can trigger emotions, which I invite you to feel, observe and process. What I can promise is that I’ll be there throughout the experience, being present and caring.
The following can also be offered in multiple sessions, or a few in sequence in the same session, depending on availability of time and how you are feeling in the moment. I'm happy for you to tell me what you're interested in, and I can also make recommendations and discuss options.
The time each one takes is difficult to be precise with, but I'll leave a rough guide so you at least have an idea of what to expect. This can be tailored to your availability.
Full body massage:
Duration: 90-120 minutes
- Full body massage, with a sensual touch, with extras if you wish. This is in Swedish massage style, including at your own discretion your legs, arms, neck, back, buttocks, and genitals.
Bossy massage:
Duration: 30 minutes (though it can carry on for up to 2 hours if you'd like)
- This is a great introduction and can be quite fun. It's a way of practising asking what you want (which can be more difficult than many people would think). It involves myself being available, in a structured way, to follow your requests.
5 Touches massage:
Duration: 30 minutes
- Another good introduction, it can be a nice one to have in the beginning of the session. As the name suggests, it involves 5 types of touch, which follow a circular pattern through your body, ending optionally with a form of Tibetan pulse.
Yoni massage:
Duration: 1-2 hours
- External and internal (if desired) massage of the yoni, which is a sanskrit word for the vagina. Lots of gentle and attentive touch to all parts you feel comfortable with being touched.
Rosetta massage:
Duration: 1-2 hours
- This can be quite a pleasurable experience, it’s a very gentle and slow bum/anal massage. I believe it can be especially good for people who had painful experiences in the past, to discover new sensations. If you aren’t comfortable with anal penetration, you can have only the external area touched, and that can also be a great experience.
Lingam massage:
Duration:1-2 hours
- This is a lingam (penis) massage, which can be quite an experience. I wouldn’t call it “a wank”; rather, you’ll be massaged in many areas you might not be used to, from the base (perineum) to the tip. It can lead to ejaculation (especially if that’s something you’d like to), but that’s not the goal.
Sensual tantra massage:
Duration: 1-2 hours
- This is the most free flowing massage I offer, which involves lots of sensual touch, slow and gentle movements. This one isn’t planned or structured; rather it’s played by ear.
A Taste of Dark Tantra
Duration: 1 hour
- This experience is focused on the senses and pleasure, using different tools like a flogger and my hands. The goal is not to have discomfort or pain, but rather a gentle play on light spanking and different sensations.
Body Exploration:
Duration: Suggested 30-60 minutes
- Probably the least conventional of all my offerings, but after having a similar experience myself, to be able to have a male body to explore for my own curiosity, I’ve decided it might have value to people. This basically gives you access to explore my body as you wish. I can wear a blindfold so you don’t feel watched, and at ease to explore and use. You have no obligation to give myself any pleasure, this is an experience for you.
Notes:
- The option of sex is also available, though as everything else, it’s completely up to you if you’d like it. It can be part of the massage experiences.
- I’m regularly checked for STIs, and had hep A/B plus HPV vaccines. I'm also on PrEP. My last STI tests are from the 12th of November and were all clear.
- Condoms (latex free) are required, for both penetration and oral sex. I can provide them.
- The massage can be done with gloves (nitrile, which is oil safe) for our mutual protection. They feel really good, but it’s your choice.
- I have a (foldable) massage mat I can bring with me, but if you don’t have the space for it on the floor (180x120cm), or don't want it for whatever reason, we can use a bed, that’s not a problem.