Hey there cuties 💜
Iām Xander, a (mostly) submissive bottom serving you in Nottingham xD
Enabling your kinky desires is why iām here, after all, thatās why youāre here too isnāt it?
Thereās not much that shocks me, so feel free to be open and honest with your needs! 😈
Iām slim, in shape, and excited to be what you need me to be
I get a lot of interest from bi-curious people, and those looking for their first experience of d*ck; if thatās you, then hiiiiii👋🏻!!!
I donāt top for most people, but I often will when it comes to inducting you into a love of cock āŗļø We should all have that.
Being someoneās first is something Iāve become very accustomed to, and I can help you make your first time a really affirming experience, whether youāve experimented in that way before, or not! 🥹😉
While weāre on the subject, I have what I like to call a āforever cock ā¢ļøā. Its a very reasonable 7 inches, and large enough to be just enough of a struggle to be fun, but not so much that it hurts 😖ā🏻āØ
Whether youāre a single, a curious first-timer, on the DL, part of a couple looking to explore, or something entirely different, Iāll make sure you get the sexy, easy experience you deserveā¦ and I always enjoy it too :P
I keep up to date with all my sexual tests and protections so that you can feel confident and assured to let go and indulge freeeeeely ;)
Donāt be shy, drop me a message, itās all easier than you think 😘 xx
So Iām actually in transition (MtF), and i do sometimes dressā¦ but usually at my own discretion.
Iām committed to boy-mode, as i donāt pass at the minute, so you wonāt be able to ignore that iām still very much a boy rn.
Either way, theres some pics of me dressed on my profileā¦ itād be kinda like thatā¦ but worse a bit, coz i had lighting and timing to help me on those photos xD
If me dressing for you, or wearing a specific outfit is something you find interesting, then let me know, we may be able to work it out.
So i get a lot of people, many of them guys, but not all wanting to explore a cock for the first time.
I get it, my body is slender, and quite youthful, i have a soft demeanor, and iām extremely patient in these types of moments.
Luckily, I was blessed with both: a love of cock, and a lovely cock (so Iām told).
Usually, theyāll have concerns, like:
[*] I want to go at my own speed
thats more than fine by me 😉 only you can decide how far youāre willing to go in a session; i wont make you do anythingā¦ unless you want me to
[*] When i say stop i want it to stop
if/when you say stop, it stops. if you want to carry on once youāve found your footing, then we can! if not, all cool too!
[*] Iām worried that it will hurt
okay, I canāt lieā¦. if people told you that their first time hurt, theyāre probably not lyingā¦
but, and this is a big butt, I can almost entirely promise you that the person they were with either didnāt know what they were doing, or didnāt care if it hurt the other person
cocks should never cause you hurt! Iāll repeat that one more time: cocks should never cause you hurt!
so yeah, cocks donāt hurt people, but the ones wielding them sometimes do.
in case you canāt tell, I wouldnāt hurt you :D
I know lots and lots about the human body/anatomy of many gendersā¦
ā¦and can probably even tell help you with a couple of bits to keep enjoying this type of play in the future.
[*] What about kissing/not kissing?
hey, some like it, some donātā¦ thereās no big issue for me. if you have a preference either way, just say so
[*] What if i only want penis play in one particular direction or involving only a certain other body part?
thatās no problem!
by this point youāve probably picked up that I *want you* to be having a relaxed, sexy, and enjoyable time
some people just want to touch/be-touched, suck/be-sucked, fuck/be-fucked
thatās all perfectly okay! :D
